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That's Why We're Single

That's Why We're Single

By DB, LE2thaON, and Dra Tyson

Welcome to our podcast tailored for women to get an inside track on how men think regarding everything around love, dating, and relationships from our perspectives. We hope to use our experiences and our different walks through life to help you understand how the male psyche process women and our outlook on love. We give advice and y’all about current topics in our “Free Game” segment. Then we get into a deep discussion around the “Topic Of The Week” and finally we take some time for Q&A. Three men. Three different stages of love. One goal. To help you on this journey called “love”.
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Episode 37 - TRIGGERED!!!

That's Why We're SingleAug 12, 2020

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Episode 41 - We BYKE!!!

Episode 41 - We BYKE!!!

Yeah, yeah...we know. Our bad. But we BYKE!!!

This episode, we are talking the presidential race, "alpha women" and why they are mostly single, & guys that use being nice to be creeps.

Then we are in our bag talking about why men get married versus why women think men get married.

Lastly, we are talking about splitting the bill at dinner & if you can like someone too much too early.

Oct 19, 202001:42:32
Episode 40 - Funny In The Light
Sep 16, 202002:03:05
Episode 39 - We The Prize

Episode 39 - We The Prize

Happy Labor Day! Make sure you enjoy the off day, get some BBQ, and relax with us.

This week we bring on our good friend and brother, Leo, to help us get caught up with everything.

We give flowers to Jacob Blake and pay respects to Chadwick Boseman & John Thompson. Then we get into "Free Game" where we question how tight your friends are if they let you do dumb stuff, give our take on the Tory Lames situation and how we can do a better job protecting our Black women and what that even looks like.

Then we dive into what we have learned about dating during COVID and how do you show genuine interest as a man.

Lastly we close out on who has the better dating pool between men and women.

Help the podcast grow by making a contribution of as little as .99 a   month by going to anchor.fm/thatswhyweresingle and becoming a sponsor!!! Make sure you are following us on our social media platforms by going to linktr.ee/thatswhyweresingle and subscribing to us on your favorite podcast listening platform!!!

Sep 03, 202002:24:17
Episode 38 - "Better Late Than Never. But Never Late Is Better" Feat. Brandi w/ Take Control Podcast
Aug 31, 202001:58:56
Episode 37 - TRIGGERED!!!

Episode 37 - TRIGGERED!!!

Year 2... let's begin!!!

Did you miss us? Cause we sure as hell missed y'all!!! We missed THIS!!! We missed ALL OF THIS!!! But we are back (with a slight delay) for year 2 of That's Why We're Single!!!

This week we are talking the return of sports, Kamala Harris, Megan Thee Stallion and that's just the first half!!!

Then we get into a deep topic regarding how do we know how to be loved.

Lastly, we get into how COVID is gonna affect this year's "Cuffing Season".

Help the podcast grow by making a contribution of as little as .99 a month by going to anchor.fm/thatswhyweresingle and becoming a sponsor!!! Make sure you are following us on our social media platforms by going to  linktr.ee/thatswhyweresingle and subscribing to us on your favorite  podcast listening platform!!!

Aug 12, 202001:54:38
Episode 36 - Poundtown

Episode 36 - Poundtown

Boy, oh boy... what a week!!!

Before the fellas get into Jada and August, they recap last week's Verzuz and talk about TI calling out 50 Cent. Next they discuss the NFL playing the Black National Anthem for one week only and does Kanye really have a shot at being president.

Then they discuss everything Will, Jada, and August Alsina before closing the show out on does reassurance cancel out insecurities.

Make sure you are following us on our social media platforms by going to linktr.ee/thatswhyweresingle and subscribing to us on your favorite podcast listening platform!!!

Jul 07, 202001:49:03
Episode 35 - Some Buns In Hand Are Worth More Than Two Buns In The Bush

Episode 35 - Some Buns In Hand Are Worth More Than Two Buns In The Bush

The boys are back in town!!!

This week, we are trying to lighten the mood by talking about if sports are coming back too soon, the Bubba Wallace situation, & "The Chi" television show.

Then we begin to talk about the season finale of "Insecure" and if we were satisfied with how the season played out.

Lastly we are answering questions about women's footwear and Verzuz.

Make sure you are following us on our social media platforms by going to   linktr.ee/thatswhyweresingle and subscribing to us on your favorite   podcast listening platform!!!

Jun 29, 202002:12:23
Episode 34 - Keep That Same Energy
Jun 12, 202001:48:42
Episode 33 - Black Lives Matter Feat. Dr. Maria Houston

Episode 33 - Black Lives Matter Feat. Dr. Maria Houston

This has been a tough week for all of us. This week, we are stepping away from the laughs to help our listeners get through this together. We are bringing Maria (yes, THAT Maria) who just happens to be a licensed psychologist. We get into justifying our feelings (12:38), waiting for our non-Black friends to say something (24:11), protestors versus the looters & rioters (33:33), and coping mechanisms to help us going forward (44:07). Make sure you are following us on our social media platforms by going to linktr.ee/thatswhyweresingle and subscribing to us on your favorite podcast listening platform!!! 
Jun 01, 202058:30
Episode 32 - How To Get Over Your Ex
May 25, 202001:40:56
Episode 31 - Boosie Feat. The Ladies of The "A Pair of Lips" Podcast
May 18, 202001:55:31
Episode 30 - "Toxic" Feat. Tiffany Campbell (Now w/ Less Profanity)

Episode 30 - "Toxic" Feat. Tiffany Campbell (Now w/ Less Profanity)

Don't ever say we don't listen to you guys. We're gonna ease on the profanity. Our mamas raised us better!!! Speaking of which, Happy Mother's Day to all the mothers, mother-figures, and those of us with moms & children that are no long with us to celebrate. This week we have the amazing writer, author, and actress Tiffany Campbell on the show kicking it with us to talk some "Free Game" about the whole Dussepalooza fallout (8:24) and Earl Thomas, his wife, his brother and that whole real life Tyler Perry movie situation (38:05). This week's topic we give the floor to Tiffany to talk about her film "Toxic" and the fellas get into some of their own real life toxic situations (53:27). Lastly, as usual, we are going to get into some questions. This week we are discussing who's list (men or women) of what they can bring to the table is longer (1:32:25) and are Black men properly loved before they have money (1:41:04). Make sure you are following us on our social media platforms by going to linktr.ee/thatswhyweresingle and subscribe to us on your favorite podcast listening platform!!!
May 11, 202001:58:58
Episode 29 - When One Woman's Trash Becomes Another Woman's Treasure

Episode 29 - When One Woman's Trash Becomes Another Woman's Treasure

Yeah, we know. We took an unexpected couple of weeks off. Blame technology, not our hearts. But we are back and we promise not to leave you again like that.
Quarantine has people acting crazy and we are here to discuss it ALL and more!!! We give a recent law school graduate the roses he deserves after he used a recent Instagram post to come at Black women (6:45), who's to blame when a young rapper flies in a woman to celebrate his birthday but doesn't pay for her flight back (23:11), and should you follow your gut instinct or intuition when it comes to red flags (39:02).
Next we discuss the latest episode of Insecure. Particularly, when women feel some sort of way when their ex levels up with a new woman (54:12) in the "Topic Of The Week".
Lastly, we answering questions about accepting compliments from others if you are in a relationship (1:24:45) and this social media trend of women messing with their guys and their video games (1:28:53).
May 04, 202001:40:42
Episode 28 - Are Some Women Backdooring Men Into Relationships?

Episode 28 - Are Some Women Backdooring Men Into Relationships?

Another week and they've extended the quarantine. Many things have shut down but one thing you can depend on is the Fellas bringing you the podcast. This week, we are talking about everyone going live on IG & self-care during the 'Rona in "Free Game". Then we tackle some comments Joe Budden made about women pushing the relationship agenda on men. Finally, we ask the questions "Would you let your girl cut your hair" and "What do you fear in dating". Make sure you're tuned into our social media by going to linktr.ee/thatswhyweresingle to stay up to date with everything we've got going on!!!
Apr 13, 202001:30:50
Episode 27 - Quarantine, Quarantine, Quarantine Feat. The Ladies of @arewedoingthisornahpodcast

Episode 27 - Quarantine, Quarantine, Quarantine Feat. The Ladies of @arewedoingthisornahpodcast

Well, the quarantine finally got us... Can't record together but we aren't gonna let a little something like that stop us from bringing you this work. Matter of fact, we are gonna bring some of Houston's finest with us this week. Steph and Dro from the "Are We Doing This Or Nah" podcast join us this week to talk about what they are doing to keep themselves busy doing the quarantine (Hint: They can do it by themselves) during the Free Game. Also we talk about celebrities on social media during the lockdown & everyone's favorite hillbilly, the Tiger King. Make sure you are following us on linktr.ee/thatswhyweresingle as well the ladies at @arewedoingthisornahpodcast
Apr 06, 202001:34:15
Episode 26 - Love Languages & The Art of Rejection Feat. @donnfrmthegram

Episode 26 - Love Languages & The Art of Rejection Feat. @donnfrmthegram

How's quarantine going for you? Strap in. We've got until at least April 30th before this is all done. Meanwhile, the Fellas are here to give you some essentials on this week's episode. We are giving free game on utilizing this time we now have in the house to do that thing you've wanted to do & helping you gentlemen out there to step up your cologne game. This week we give you TWO main topics where we talk about how to reject someone/something & our love languages. Lastly, we answer some viewer questions with commentary from our audience that watched us record live. As always, make sure you've got linktr.ee/thatwhyweresingle saved in your bookmarks to stay up to date on all of our social media sites.
Mar 30, 202002:21:03
Episode 25 - Are 9-5 Dudes Out Of Style?

Episode 25 - Are 9-5 Dudes Out Of Style?

Only Corona we acknowledge over here is the beer. Nothing stops the podcast!!! Especially when the world needs to smile right now!!!

We are in some different times right now. Toilet paper out of stock. Gas under 2 dollars. But one thing you can depend on is The Fellas bringing you this HEAT!!!

This week, after discussing the big elephant in the room, our "Free Game" talks about forcing things against letting nature take its course & making relationship announcements on social media.

The main topic, we go IN on a woman that doesn't want a 9-5 dude (and she's from Chicago so one of us might feel a certain type of way).

This week's questions are about the 80/20 rule, how to tell your partner when they aren't so fresh, how to tell when a -ship is over, and do people still have crushes.

Oh yeah...did I mention we recorded this live on Instagram and Facebook? So we react LIVE to your comments and questions. So listen for your friends or maybe yourself.

As always, make sure you go to our social media at linktr.ee/ThatsWhyWereSingle

Mar 22, 202001:40:35
Episode 24 - When's The Right Time To Move In Feat. Keira "The Red Carpet Realtor" Chatman

Episode 24 - When's The Right Time To Move In Feat. Keira "The Red Carpet Realtor" Chatman

We took a week off but we are back! No virus is gonna stop the Fellas from bringing the smoke!!!

This week the female perspective is brought to you by one of the top realtors in the Columbus Ohio area, the "Red Carpet Realtor" herself, Keira Chatman!!!

After the usual "Church Announcements", the Fellas get into this week's "Free Game" around booty call hours, entertaining cornballs, and "Are you looking or are you open?".

For the "Topic of the Week", who better to bring in that someone that sees folks signing these mortgages too soon. Keira brings her opinions and personal experiences to the table and she doesn't pull any punches.

Lastly, this week's questions concern the right time to have personal conversations and how long are you willing to wait for sex. Also...you definitely DON'T wanna miss the last five minutes, lol.

Make sure you follow us on all of our social media pages at linktr.ee/thatswhyweresingle

Follow our guest at @redcarpetrealtor614 on Instagram.

Mar 16, 202001:36:12
Episode 23 - Rich Man, Poor Man Feat. Tuck
Mar 02, 202001:24:47
Episode 22 - Can You Be Friends With An Ex?

Episode 22 - Can You Be Friends With An Ex?

The Fellas are back this week recording from a NEW LOCATION!!! Big things are happening! The bag's a little different this year!!!

Leon leads this week "Free Game" talking about self control and the group reflects about the Valentine's Day weekend.

Next, the Fellas get into a great discussion around being friends with an ex.

Finally, they get into questions about missing a person or the companionship after the breakup.

Follow the Fellas at linktr.ee/thatswhyweresingle

Feb 24, 202001:25:07
Episode 21 - Romance & Finance Feat. Tasha Macklin
Feb 16, 202001:45:17
Episode 20 - The Do's and Don'ts of Valentine's Day

Episode 20 - The Do's and Don'ts of Valentine's Day

We're back...

Your favorite podcast is BACK for season two!!! The Fellas are here with That's Why We're Single!!!

"Free Game" this week centers around unnecessary lying. The fellas then take you into an update of where they are in their romantic lives from the beginning of season one.

The Fellas then get into their personal Do's and Don'ts of the upcoming Valentine's Day holiday.

Lastly,  they throw around the subject of how one becomes their valentine.

Go to linktr.ee/thatswhyweresingle to follow all of their social media platforms.

Feb 10, 202001:06:25
Episode 19 - Is Your Cell Phone Ruining Your Relationships?

Episode 19 - Is Your Cell Phone Ruining Your Relationships?

After taking a quick break for the Thanksgiving holiday, The Fellas are back to talk about all this that make them single.

Before getting into this week's "Free Game", The Fellas talk about seasonal depression (8:07). Then they talk about the "Free Game" which centers around women not allowing their men to have female friends (14:21) and people that put their private conversations on their social media for clout (28:00).

The main topic this week centers around how cell phones have influenced (or degraded) our relationships because of the access they give to your mate (42:02).

Lastly, we discuss the comments made by Patrick Patterson and how he referred to Black women as "bulldogs" and why the Black woman is the most disrespected demographic (72:14).

Our podcast is available on all platforms! Go to  linktr.ee/thatswhyweresingle to follow all of our social media platforms  and subscribe TODAY!!!

Dec 09, 201901:26:21
Episode 18 - "You Can't F*** With Me In My Tax Bracket" Feat. @93.amg

Episode 18 - "You Can't F*** With Me In My Tax Bracket" Feat. @93.amg

This week's topics in "Free Game" include the "Runaway Couple" that took the $30,000 they received as gifts prior to their wedding and canceled the wedding (8:59) and the need for us to properly communicate to a person instead of "Ghosting" (16:44).

Our main topic this week is surrounding artist Tory Lanez and his recent comments on the Joe Budden podcast regarding women that ask for gifts that are outside of their means (36:33).

The Fellas then answer questions about women making significantly more money than their man (1:05:50) and why do we watch reality TV shows that depict us in a negative way (1:18:30).

Our podcast is available on all platforms! Go to linktr.ee/thatswhyweresingle to follow all of our social media platforms and subscribe TODAY!!!

Nov 25, 201901:27:48
Episode 17 - One Reason Men Cheat

Episode 17 - One Reason Men Cheat

This week, we are back talking about the rise of human and sex trafficking, Tamar Braxton and her ridiculous accusation about men, and hardened woman in this week's "Free Game" segment.

Then we are going into one of the many reasons why men cheat.

Lastly, we are going into T.I. and his situation with his daughter.

Make sure to follow "That's Why We're Single" on all of our social media platforms.

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Nov 18, 201901:30:57
Episode 16 - Green Flags Feat. @_queen.bri

Episode 16 - Green Flags Feat. @_queen.bri

Did you miss us?!?!?!

We are back dropping another fun-filled episode where we bring along another special guest so that you can get a woman's perspective.

This week we are talking about the green flags that men and women look for in a partner. Compare yours to ours.

As usual, we are going to bring you some "Free Game" as well as answering some questions at the end. 

Make sure to follow "That's Why We're Single" on all of our social media platforms.

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Nov 11, 201901:13:38
Episode 15 - Gender Roles Feat. @Courgasm & @th3storm_

Episode 15 - Gender Roles Feat. @Courgasm & @th3storm_

It's a full house this week when The Fellas bring back their guests from their previous two episodes to have a great conversation about gender roles. Do we still need them? Are they the reason more relationships are failing these days? Find out what everyone thinks!!!

Also don't miss these week's "Free Game" segment where everyone discusses privacy and this video where a young lady doesn't want her date to pay with plastic.

Make sure to follow "That's Why We're Single" on all of our social media platforms.

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Oct 21, 201901:50:27
Episode 14 - Why Are African-American Relationships More Difficult To Navigate Today (AKA It's a Single MF'n Podcast) Feat. @th3storm

Episode 14 - Why Are African-American Relationships More Difficult To Navigate Today (AKA It's a Single MF'n Podcast) Feat. @th3storm

Ladies, the woman's perspective is back this week!!! With Dra M.I.A., the fellas invited Leon's cohost from his other podcast onto the show to fill in for their missing brother.

Together, they discuss current topics including Instagram removing the "Following" button & what if your man isn't financially into you.

This week's main topic dives into the topic of why are African-American relationships failing now more than ever.

Make sure to follow "That's Why We're Single" on all of their social media platforms.

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Oct 14, 201901:40:26
Episode 13 - Are You Ready For A Relationship Featuring @Courgasm

Episode 13 - Are You Ready For A Relationship Featuring @Courgasm

You asked? We delivered!!! It's that time of the week again but this time we bring you the female perspective!!! Featuring model, entrepreneur, & fashion consultant Courey A. AKA @Courgasm, the Fellas tackle the usual topics. This week's main topic tackle ways that you are truly ready for a relationship.

As always, make sure to check out out on our social media platforms:

Instagram: ThatsWhyWereSingle

Facebook: That's Why We're Single

Email: ThatsWhyWereSingle@gmail.com

Oct 07, 201902:01:50
Episode 12 - You're Single Because You Don't Submit

Episode 12 - You're Single Because You Don't Submit

We are back this week talking about Fantasia's recent statement that women are single because they don't submit to their men. See how the fellas feel about this. In addition, don't forget to check out this week's "Free Game" segment and Q&A portion of the show!!!

As always, don't forget to follow the podcast on our social media platforms:

Facebook: That's Why We're Single

Instagram: ThatsWhyWereSingle

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Email: ThatsWhyWereSingle@gmail.com

Sep 30, 201901:32:16
Episode 11 - The Seven Toxic and Favorable Traits of Men

Episode 11 - The Seven Toxic and Favorable Traits of Men

Continuing last week's episode the fellas are back this week to talk about the favorable and toxic traits of men. But not before they get into some "Free Game" about that "time of the month" and supporting your friends.
Learn more about how the fellas see themselves and their toxic traits.
Can't wait for you to listen!!!
Sep 23, 201901:35:13
Episode 10 - The Seven Toxic and Favorable Traits of Women

Episode 10 - The Seven Toxic and Favorable Traits of Women

Another Monday means another episode of The Fellas on That's Why We're Single.

As always, make sure you tune into this week's "Free Game" segment (Our apologies for the audio issue the first half of the episode) & this week's topic where The Fellas talk about the seven toxic & favorable traits of women. Get to know what the guys like and don't like when it comes to these traits and if they had to deal with one, which one would it be.

Also make sure you tune in next week as the fellas will discuss the seven toxic and favorable traits of men.

Sep 16, 201901:45:44
Episode 9 - Cuffing Season

Episode 9 - Cuffing Season

Check out this week's episode where the fellas talk about enablers, men who treat women like property, and if it's ok to talk to your man while he's watching sports.

In addition, this week's main topic centers around Cuffing Season and if the fellas think that they will get drafted this year.

Sep 09, 201901:46:05
Episode 8 - The Friend Zone

Episode 8 - The Friend Zone

Happy Labor Day! Today marks the unofficial end of the summer but the Fellas are definitely keeping the heat coming this week!!! Someone FINALLY cut the dudes a check!!! Make sure you get the details of their first ever live podcast party! (Get your livers ready...) In free game, the fellas discuss people that are desperate for love & dudes that are over-masculine. Then they get into this week's topic involving the Friend Zone and an interesting way to get yourself out of there. Lastly, the fellas get into some viewer questions. Make sure to follow us on all of our social media platforms: Instagram: ThatsWhyWereSingle Facebook: That's Why We're Single Twitter: ThatsWhyWere1
Sep 02, 201901:42:53
Episode 7 - Sexcapades

Episode 7 - Sexcapades

It's Monday so that means it's time for another new episode from the Fellas!!!

Among the topics in this week's "Free Game" include letting women win, avoiding situationships, and "Is sex a gift?" which leads to a lengthy discussion on some of their past sexual encounters that you will find very entertaining!!!

Also make sure you listen to next week's episode for an exciting announcement.

Aug 26, 201901:37:56
Episode 6 - Damnit Gina!!!

Episode 6 - Damnit Gina!!!

Join the fellas this week for an in-depth discussion on what they feel is wrong with dating nowadays. Also, things take an unexpected turn which leads to more discussion about why they think they are single. You don't wanna miss this week's "Free Game" segment about haters, dudes asking women for money, and people giving TMI.

Also we learn one thing: Don't talk negatively about "Martin" in front of DB.

All this and so much more on this week's episode of "That's Why We're Single".

Aug 19, 201901:41:39
Episode 5 - Ol' Miron Ass N****

Episode 5 - Ol' Miron Ass N****

So who is Miron? Miron's a character from the movie "The Players Club" (Great movie BTW if you haven't seen it). Miron is a creepy ass dude.
This week, the fellas discuss some real life Mirons that they have encountered and how men need to hold each other accountable for their actions. In addition, this week's "Free Game" segment discusses wearing appropriate clothing and guys commenting on other guys' clothing.
Tune in to listen to all the hilarity!!!
Aug 12, 201901:39:58
Episode 4 - Applesauce

Episode 4 - Applesauce

How in the hell do you name an episode "Applesauce"? Make sure you listen to find out!
The fellas recap the weekend and drop some "Free Game" for both the men and women this week. They then dive into their topic of the week which discusses the idea of love at first sight. Do the fellas think that it exists? Has it ever happened to them?
Make sure that you pay attention to all the hilarity happened behind the scenes including DB being extra tired and Dra disappearing for a minute! Leon will never have you looking at applesauce the same way again!!!
We hope you enjoy!!!
Aug 05, 201901:41:49
Episode 3 - Y'all Finna Be Mad At Us aka Messy Boots

Episode 3 - Y'all Finna Be Mad At Us aka Messy Boots

The fellas are back and this week, the gloves are OFF!!! After this week's edition of "Free Game", the fellas go into their bag about a response Leon received regarding a question he asked on his social media which leads to a deep discussion about chivalry and gender roles that's sure to piss some people off!!!
We didn't say everything would be roses now did we?
Jul 29, 201901:27:02
Episode 2 - Don't Segregate My Sex

Episode 2 - Don't Segregate My Sex

In honor of our release party, we are dropping our next episode ONE DAY EARLY!!! The fellas are back!!! Fresh off their podcast release party and impromptu pool party, the energy is HIGH!!! After answering some viewer questions, the fellas get into some free game for the ladies and guys. Then they get into whether or not they believe in sex on the first date. Also listen for their own personal “caught up” experiences and a chance to win tickets to Issa Brunch happening in Columbus on July 28th!
Jul 21, 201901:13:55
Episode 1 - I'm F.I.N.E.
Jul 15, 201952:26
That's Why I'm Single

That's Why I'm Single

Before their official launch on July 15, the fellas get together to shoot the sh*t and give the world a preview of the things to come. Learn more about the direction of their podcast, their reasons for creating it, and why they feel they’re single. Don't miss the guys' first time together on the mic!​
Jul 01, 201948:37
When's That 1st Episode Dropping?...

When's That 1st Episode Dropping?...

We know, we know... You've seen the photos. You've gotten the invites on social media. You're intrigued. So when's the first episode dropping. Listen to D.B. as he goes one-on-one with you to give you a brief update as to what's going on and when to expect that first drop!!!

Jun 13, 201902:44