Welcome to The MisFitNation Show with host Rich LaMonica. This is a show started by a US Army Veteran and hosted by 2 Veterans and a Military Spouse. Our aim is to inspire everyone to be better humans. We do this by bringing on guests with stories of Grit and Resilience while adding in experts in many fields such as Authors, Entrepreneurs, Coaches, Motivational Speakers, Health and Fitness professionals, and many more. Join us for an episode or all of them, and if you feel like you will be a great fit, send us a message and we will get you on the show. 2021 Best Society and Culture Podcast Veteran Podcast Awards 2022 Top 40 over 40 Podcast Podcast Magazine
Leadership When Lives Depend On It | Mark Andrew on Leading Through the Heat
May 14, 2026
When the alarm sounds and lives are on the line… leadership gets real.
On this episode of The MisFitNation Show, host Rich LaMonica welcomes Fire Captain Mark Andrew, author of Leading Through the Heat—a powerful leadership book built from real lessons learned in one of the most demanding professions on earth.
In the firehouse, there is no room for:
❌ Micromanagement
❌ Ego
❌ Empty commands
❌ Fake leadership
There is only trust, preparation, teamwork, and decisive action.
After decades in the fire service, Mark Andrew has seen what separates leaders who earn loyalty from those who lose it.
In this conversation, Mark shares the hard truths about leadership that apply far beyond emergency response—whether you lead in business, the military, entrepreneurship, education, or everyday life.
We dive into:
🔥 Why presence matters more than control
🔥 How to build trust when pressure rises
🔥 The difference between commanding and inspiring
🔥 Why caring for your people creates stronger teams
🔥 How to transition from worker to leader
This isn’t theory.
It’s leadership forged in heat, stress, and consequences.
If you want to become a stronger leader, teammate, spouse, coach, or human being—this episode delivers.
🎙️ In This Episode
Leadership lessons from the fireground
Why poor leadership gets exposed under pressure
Trust vs control in high-performance teams
Presence over micromanagement
Caring for people without losing standards
Becoming the leader others choose to follow
🔗 Learn More About Mark Andrew
📚 Book: Leading Through the Heat
https://www.amazon.com/Leading-Through-Heat-Mark-Andrew/dp/196982610X/
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💬 CALL TO ACTION
Pressure reveals leadership.
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Living in a Van to Honor America’s Heroes | Kevin & Lauren Wallace | Van of Valor
May 12, 2026
What if honoring America’s heroes became your life mission?
On this episode of The MisFitNation Show, host Rich LaMonica welcomes US Air Force Veteran Dr. Kevin Wallace and Lauren Wallace, the husband-and-wife team behind one of the most meaningful missions in America today—Van of Valor.
Van of Valor is a cross-country project dedicated to recording, preserving, and sharing the stories of Purple Heart recipients and Gold Star families.
Their belief is simple:
“The highest form of honor is to remember.”
Kevin Wallace is a retired combat photojournalist who served as a photographer for Air Force One and is himself a Purple Heart recipient and Bronze Star with Valor recipient.
Lauren Wallace is a cultural anthropologist and Harvard history graduate student who helps ensure these stories are preserved with historical depth and meaning.
Together, the newlyweds live as unpaid volunteers in a converted FedEx van—traveling over 30,000 miles across America with their dachshund Sunny—meeting veterans in homes, VFW halls, farms, and small towns to document stories that might otherwise be lost forever.
Their mission goes beyond interviews.
They conduct buddy checks, reconnect forgotten histories, and remind families that sacrifice will never be ignored.
One unforgettable detour led them to the forgotten gravesite of a decorated Vietnam-era pilot, where they rendered a final salute.
That moment captures the spirit of this mission:
No warrior left behind. No hero forgotten.
This episode is about service after service, preserving legacy, leadership, sacrifice, and why remembering matters now more than ever.
🎙️ In This Episode
Why Van of Valor was created
Kevin’s story as a Purple Heart veteran
Serving as a photographer for Air Force One
Lauren’s role preserving history and legacy
Life on the road in a converted van
Meeting Purple Heart recipients across America
Why remembrance is a duty
Building bridges between military and civilian America
🔗 Learn More About Van of Valor
🌐 Website
http://www.HelpVoV.com
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💬 CALL TO ACTION
Their message is simple:
Honor through remembrance.
👉 Whose story in your family deserves to be remembered?
Drop their name in the comments.
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Reinventing Yourself After Divorce, Loss & Midlife
May 8, 2026
What happens when everything you thought defined you… starts to fall apart?
In this episode, Teri M. Brown joins The MisFitNation to unpack the emotional and psychological journey behind her latest book Peg, Unhinged. From divorce and menopause to identity loss and rebuilding confidence, this conversation dives into the raw truth of midlife transformation.
This isn’t just about struggle—it’s about resilience, reinvention, and finding strength when life forces you to change.
If you’ve ever felt like you’re losing control… this episode will show you how to take it back.
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Marine EOD Veteran on Surviving War & Healing After TBI | Hart Holmberg V
May 7, 2026
Some warriors fight battles long after the war ends.
On this episode of The ToosDay Crüe, hosts Jake Holland and Stephen LaMonica sit down with US Marine Corps Veteran Hartvig Holmberg V—a retired Master Sergeant whose 24-year career took him from Light Armored Reconnaissance to the elite world of Explosive Ordnance Disposal (EOD).
Hartvig joined the Marines in 1997 as a Light Armored Vehicle (LAV) Crewman, serving with the 15th and 13th Marine Expeditionary Units and deploying to Iraq during Operation Iraqi Freedom.
Later, he answered another calling.
He attended EOD School in Florida, graduating in 2009, and went on to serve with:
• Chemical Biological Incident Response Force (CBIRF)
• 3rd EOD Company
• CLB 26
• MWSS 272
His deployments as an EOD technician included Afghanistan (OEF 13.2) and multiple deployments with the 26th MEU.
After retiring in 2021 as a Master Sergeant, Hartvig didn’t stop serving.
Today he is:
• A contract instructor
• Part owner of Corvus Training Group V
• President of the EOD Motorcycle Club
But perhaps his most important mission has been personal.
Hartvig openly shares his ongoing healing journey after multiple traumatic brain injuries (TBIs)—learning self-awareness, growth, and recovery through programs like Warrior PATHH and Track Heroes.
This is a powerful conversation about combat, brotherhood, identity, trauma, healing, and continuing the mission after service.
🎙️ In This Episode
Life as a Marine LAV Crewman
Iraq and Afghanistan deployments
Becoming an EOD Technician
The pressure of explosive ordnance disposal work
Living with multiple TBIs
Recovery, self-awareness, and healing
Brotherhood through the EOD Motorcycle Club
Reinventing purpose after retirement
🔗 Learn More
🌐 Website
https://www.eodmc.com/home
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Hosted by:
🇺🇸 Jake Holland – US Army Veteran
🎙 Stephen LaMonica – Business Leader & Show Host
💬 CALL TO ACTION
Healing is a mission too.
👉 What helps YOU stay grounded through life’s battles?
Drop it in the comments.
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Combat Medic to Senior Leader | SFC Martinez Vandergrift on Leadership, Resilience & Service
May 5, 2026
What does over two decades of service as a combat medic and leader teach you about resilience, leadership, and purpose?
On this episode of The MisFitNation Show, host Rich LaMonica sits down with SFC (R) Martinez Vandergrift, a highly decorated United States Army veteran whose career spans more than 20 years in military medicine, leadership, and operations.
Martinez served as a Healthcare Specialist and Combat Medic (68W), operating in some of the most demanding environments—from frontline medical evacuation in combat zones to senior leadership roles within major Army medical commands.
Throughout his career, he:
• Served as a Medical Advisor in Iraq
• Led as a Platoon Sergeant for medical evacuation and treatment units
• Supported operations with the 101st Airborne Division (Rakkasans)
• Held senior leadership roles including Operations NCO and Senior Enlisted Advisor
• Completed multiple deployments to Iraq and Afghanistan
His leadership and service have been recognized with some of the military’s highest honors, including:
🏅 Bronze Star Medal
🏅 Meritorious Service Medal
🏅 Joint Service Commendation Medal
🏅 Combat Medical Badge
Beyond the battlefield, Martinez pursued excellence in education, earning:
🎓 Master of Science in Homeland Security & Emergency Management
🎓 Bachelor of Science in Healthcare Management
Today, he continues to lead and serve through his work in healthcare administration, emergency management, and strategic operations.
This conversation dives deep into leadership under pressure, decision-making in life-or-death moments, resilience, and building a legacy of service.
🎙️ In This Episode
What it means to lead as a combat medic
Lessons learned from Iraq and Afghanistan
Leadership at the tactical and strategic levels
The mindset required in high-pressure environments
Transitioning from military to civilian leadership
Building a legacy through service and family
🔗 Learn More About Martinez Vandergrift
youtube channel: @martinezvandergrift6259
Facebook: martinez vandergrift
IG: @darealheman
TikTok: martymarwildin80
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💬 CALL TO ACTION
Leadership is forged in moments of pressure.
👉 What’s one leadership lesson you’ve learned the hard way?
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